Dear HugoOk. Let's break this down.
No. That is incorrect. It's normally based on ignorance as well which is kind of ironic, because you seem to be ignorant about that.
This is a false narrative because my accusation that your language is transphobic does not contain an accusation that you'll treat people unequally. That's irrelevant to my point.
This is where the subtlety of the issue comes in to play. Essentially, decent people want to be nice to other people, especially persecuted minorities. Trans-women are biologically men. That is a fact and a truth. But referring to them as men (when many don't even have a penis) can be seen a spiteful and punching down to people who may be very vulnerable. Why not just call them trans-women. That is their protected characteristic, not being biologically male.
As for men telling women what to do. I'd suspect those getting gaslit and enraged about this issue are 90% ignorant men.
It's hate speech. Obviously.
You have likened a trans-woman to a male serial killer in a dress. You are linking both a cisgender man and a murderer (albeit a fictional one) to trans-women. It's the equivalent of linking banking with Judaism or terrorism with Islam because your very clear implication is 'all trans-women' are like this. It's a transphobic statement whatever your opinion but I actually think it's through ignorance now rather than any spite (reading your other comments) so apologies for the nasty little man comment.
In terms of suppressing your 'free speech', your premise is nonsensical, I don't have the power to suppress your speech. Even if I did, I'd want you to be educated rather than suppressed. Free speech is not absolute, you can be prosecuted for hate speech.
The only person referring to a serial killer is you.
ignorance (which is a two way street) isn’t hate. Hate is hate.
You’re offended, simple as. My observation wasn’t aggravated in by hostility, I was simply pointing out that Buffalo Bill did not look like a woman. However, I would have respected his choices & rights and treated him civilly.
Thank you