I think challenging people for the no headphones thing has to be done with care.People don't like confrontation and are worried about things spiralling out of their control.
So they take the easy option and swerve the situation.
The older I get the more I tend to swerve confrontation, thinking to myself "is it worth it?"
I suppose it could be called cowardly or just a lack of confidence.
I think it’s different if people are actually there in person.I often meet 3/4 business contacts in a cafe enviroment. In a cafe because it is first thing and nobody wants to drink alchohol. Owners seem to be happy with the £30/£40 we spend
The decision is already made and the gears have started turning.
I'm moving into the world of music. Yes I am aware it's risky. Yes I know it's a hugely oversaturated market. This wasn't an impulsive decision, it's about 15 years in the making.
To clarify, it would be a combination of teaching (Bass Guitar primarily, although I may also look at teaching Guitar, Drums, Piano at a basic level) and working in Sync/Song production - mostly writing for film and TV.
I have a couple of friends/old band mates who are currently working in that world (and making a decent living in it) so I would like that to be my eventual full destination, but it's a slow burn to get into and build up income. The teaching is a more solid starting point to bringing in regular income.
Oh, and also doing function work (weddings, birthdays etc) as extra income top up, maybe 1-2 times a month.
As main breadwinner of my household I have to do this very carefully - fortunately my current work are being really supportive in terms of allowing me to leave in a staged manner - it actually suits the company, the clients and me for me to leave as slowly/gradually as possible.
Sorry, you didn't ask for my life story. But it's a huge deal to me.
It might not work out, as you say, but I find with things like this, once you start putting energy into it..things happen.This is it. I'm still the right side of 40. I don't want to click my fingers and suddenly I'm 60 and still "not got round to it".
It might not work out, and I might come back to my current job cap in hand in a few years. But I owe it to myself to try.
I don’t anyone’s got a problem with that. It online MS Teams meetings that are the issue and topic of this thread.I often meet 3/4 business contacts in a cafe enviroment. In a cafe because it is first thing and nobody wants to drink alchohol. Owners seem to be happy with the £30/£40 we spend
People annoy me having a conversation on phone in public Full stop. If I recieve a call I must take will always go outside away from everyoneI don’t anyone’s got a problem with that. It online MS Teams meetings that are the issue and topic of this thread.
I have done this in the past but usually because I am not near home or the office. For example, I may have met with a customers and then used a local cafe to join a meeting before heading to my next appointment. Where I do, I try to find a corner and use a headset to keep the disruption to others to a minimum.I don’t anyone’s got a problem with that. It online MS Teams meetings that are the issue and topic of this thread.
What is it with bassists always having ideas above their station?
(Best of luck)
Good luck with this. My father was a musician for many years and enjoyed that far more than being a property developer. You can actually make people happy, even if only for a short time. I grew up in a house full of music, instruments and strange people, it was wonderfull. I don't think my father thought much of my taste in music and I don't like property developers. I wish I had been brave enough and known what my real passions were years ago.The decision is already made and the gears have started turning.
I'm moving into the world of music. Yes I am aware it's risky. Yes I know it's a hugely oversaturated market. This wasn't an impulsive decision, it's about 15 years in the making.
To clarify, it would be a combination of teaching (Bass Guitar primarily, although I may also look at teaching Guitar, Drums, Piano at a basic level) and working in Sync/Song production - mostly writing for film and TV.
I have a couple of friends/old band mates who are currently working in that world (and making a decent living in it) so I would like that to be my eventual full destination, but it's a slow burn to get into and build up income. The teaching is a more solid starting point to bringing in regular income.
Oh, and also doing function work (weddings, birthdays etc) as extra income top up, maybe 1-2 times a month.
As main breadwinner of my household I have to do this very carefully - fortunately my current work are being really supportive in terms of allowing me to leave in a staged manner - it actually suits the company, the clients and me for me to leave as slowly/gradually as possible.
Sorry, you didn't ask for my life story. But it's a huge deal to me.
I reckon going into a hipster craft beer shop would have been enough warning about the possibility of bell-ends being in the vicinity.I think in London it's mainly a bus thing, but I was having a hipster delivered craft beer last week at a hipster craft beer shop.
Should have seen the warning signs.
Complete bell-end with a Mac decides to have a meeting in the next seat. Nothing kills a pint of lager more than multiple reach outs, shares and an opportunity for a catch up later.
It's called Bell-Ends and you get 25% off if you arrive on an ironic Chopper Bike with a sense of entitlement.I reckon going into a hipster craft beer shop would have been enough warning about the possibility of bell-ends being in the vicinity.![]()
In my line of work my employer bans me from doing meetings or phone calls in public spaces - my customers do include MOD, MOJ, HMRC and DWP though. I can see no reason for anyone to need to do Teams/Zoom or voice calls in public but then again, when I was young my parents always checked I had 10p for a phone box when I went out just in case.In my work there have been times where I have needed to take a video meeting whilst at a cafe/hotel etc (because I needed internet or some work space, would do it in my car otherwise if necessary etc), but I always do my best to put myself in a quiet corner and try to be as inoffensive to other patrons as possible.
Vaping on a train - challenege itFeet on train seats - and bags taking up a seat - challenge it
No headphones on trains / busses - challenge it
Teams meetings in pubs and cafes - tell em WFH means WFH or get back in the office.
Too any entitled people nowadays, of all ages.
Vaping on a train - challenege it
If my 80 year old grandad who has smoked since he was 14 can go a train ride without smoking, a 20 year old kid vaping can.